Az embergyerekek a legelesettebbek a világon. Teljesen védtelenül születnek meg, de ösztönösen tudják, hogy a körülöttük lévő felnőtteknek szeretniük kell őket, különben nem tudnának megfelelő módon gondoskodni róluk.
Nem elég etetni és ruházni őket. Gépek is életben tudnának tartani egy csecsemőt, ám akkor nem fejlődhetne ki benne az intelligencia és a kedvesség, és tényleg különös teremtmény válna belőle.
Mindehhez úgy jut hozzá, hogy szülei gyengéden gondoskodnak róla, énekelgetnek neki, beszélgetnek vele, ringatják, csiklandozzák, szeretgetik: ettől a baba megtelik életerővel, és úgy dönt, hogy az élet szép.
Ebben a szituációban testi-lelki szükségletei egyaránt kielégítésre lelnek, emellett egy alapvető felismerésre is jut: "Biztonságban vagyok és szeretnek".
És ezt örökre magával fogja vinni.
Steve Biddulph
Dear Eva you took beautiful pictures. Children are vulnerable and parents have to guide them and love them for their future life. Yesterday my son has sent me a video of William bringing Maxime’s school bag to help him.( before the school was closed) now an interaction between the two brothers is beginning they are looking and helping each other how nice! The little blond boy is beautiful I like the last picture with the two hands!
VálaszTörlésHope you are doing well. I got up and watch the news as usual. The weather is gray and cold. I must go grocery shopping this afternoon before the long weekend but I wish I did not have to do! My knee is a bit better today but I must be careful.
Hope your day will be fine. All the best to you!
Dear Catherine, you wrote a very nice story about Maxime helping William. Thanks! They learn this nice behavior, but it's already in their instincts. Parents should love and teach their children, care for them, so that they can take all on their journey through life, because it will be a "gift" for them.
TörlésIf only there weren't so many pedophile scandals!!! It's still relevant in Hungary, and politicians are involved too.There is great outrage in the country.
On Sunday we went shopping at a supermarket, before M. left. I don't have to go shopping this week but I'll have to do it alone from next week. You wrote that you have to go shopping in the afternoon, I know that it won't be good for your knee. I'm sorry.
You wrote good news that your knee is getting better, I know that it is not completely fine yet, but at least it is better than yesterday.
I made my coffee late last day but now I have my morning refreshment next to me, and I sip it from time to time.
Our little boy is both nice and smart, it was good to see and photograph him on Saturday. I sent the last picture to his mother for next Mother's Day: the hand of the mother and her son are together.:)
A lot of love from me to you! Éva